Further reading and resources
Whether you’re ready to start working on making a difference in your life with me or you’re still thinking about it, consider the following resources for further useful reading, grouped under general areas of subject relevance-
Addiction
Allen Berger, (2010),”Twelve smart things to do when the booze and drugs are gone”, Hazelden
Affairs
Mira Kirshenbaum, (2010), “When good people have affairs”, St Martin’s Press
Mira Kirshenbaum, (2012), “I love you but I don’t trust you”, Berkley Trade
Linda MacDonald, (2010), “How to help your spouse heal from your affair”, Creativespace Independent publishing platform
Janis Spring, (2012), “After the affair”, William Morrow
Anxiety
Margaret Wehrenberg, (2008), “The ten best anxiety management techniques”, Norton
Break up Resources
Susan Anderson, (2000), “The Journey from Abandonment to healing”, Berkley
Greg Behrendt & Amira Ruotola-Behrendt, (2008), “It’s called a breakup because it’s broken”, Harmony
Susan Elliott, (2009), “Getting past your breakup”, Da Capo Lifelong Books
Susan Elliott’s website is: www.getting pastyourbreakup.com/gettingpastyourpast
Diane Vaughan, (1990), “Uncoupling”, Penguin Books
Break up resources – questioning whether to breakup
Mira Kirshenbaum, (1997), “Too good to leave, too bad to stay”, Plume
Mira Kirshenbaum’s website is: www.thechestnuthillinstitute.com/mirakirshenbaum
Peter Kramer, (1999), “Should you leave?”, Penguin Books
Break up Resources for Kids
Vicki Lanski, (1997), “It’s not your fault CoCo Bear”, Book Peddlers
Claire Masurel, (2003), “Two homes”, Candlewick
Tamara Schmitz, (2008),”Standing on my own two feet”, Price, Stern Sloane
Depression
Terry Real, (1998), “I don’t want to talk about it”, book and CD, Scribner
Michael Yapko, (1998), “Breaking the patterns of depression”, Harmony
Michael Yapko, (2000), “Hand me down blues”, Golden Guides, St Martin’s Press
Michael Yapko, (2009), “Depression is contagious”, Atria Books
Michael Yapko’s website is: www.yapko.com
Generally useful
Viktor Frankl, (1997), “Mans’ search for meaning”, Pocket Books
www.mindful.org/resources
Parenting
Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish, (2012), “How to talk so kids will listen, and listen so kids will talk”, Scribner
Brene Brown, (2013), “The gifts of imperfect parenting”, CD, Sounds True
John Gottman, (2007), “And baby makes three”, Crown/ Three Rivers press
Dan Siegel and Mary Hartzell, (2013), “Parenting from the Inside out”, Tarcher
Dan Siegel, (2014), “Brainstorm”, Tarcher
Dan Siegel, (2014), “No drama discipline”, Bantam
Dan Siegel’s website is: www.dansiegel.com
Relationships
Mira Kirshenbaum, (2006), “Is he Mr Right?”, Crown Archetype
John Gottman, (1995), “Why marriages succeed or fail”, Simon & Shuster
John Gottman, (2012), “What makes love last”, Simon & Shuster
John Gottman, (2014), “The seven principles for making marriages work”, Random House
John Gottman, (2002), “The relationship cure”, Random House
John Gottman, (2007), “Ten lessons to transform your marriage”, Random House
John Gottman’s website is: www.gottman.com
Terry Real, (1998), “I don’t want to talk about it”, book and CD, Scribner
Terry Real, (2008), “The new rules of marriage”, Ballantine Books
Terry Real, (2002), “How can I get through to you?”, Scribner
Terry Real’s website is: www.terryreal.com
Stan Tatkin, (2012), “Wired for love”, New Harbinger Publication
Stan Tatkin, (2011), “Love and war in Intimate relationships”, Norton & Co
Stan Tatkin, (2013), “Your brain on love” (CD set), Sounds True
Stan Tatkin’s website is: www.stantatkin.com
Dan Wile, (2008), “After the honeymoon”, Daniel Wile
Dan Wile, (1995), “After the fight”, The Guilford Press
Dan Wile’s website is: www.danwile.com
Sexuality
Betty Dodson, (1974), “Liberating masturbation”, Bodysex Designs
Betty Dodson, (1996), “Sex for one”, Harmony
Betty Dodson’s website is: www.dodsonandross.com
John Gottman & Julie Schwartz, (2012), “Gottsex?”, DVD program
Technology and its impact
Sherry Turkle, (2012), “Alone Together”, Basic Books
Sherry Turkle, (2011), “Evocative objects”, MIT Press
Sherry Turkle, (2005), “The second self”, MIT Press
Sherry Turkle, (1997), “Life on the screen”, Simon & Shuster
Sherry Turkle, (2012), NY Times article
Sherry Turkle (2012) Slate Article
Sherry Turkle, (2013) The Guardian
Vulnerability, Shame and Perfectionism
Brene Brown, (2010),”The gifts of Imperfection”, Hazelden
Brene Brown, (2012),”Daring greatly”, Gotham
Brene Brown, (2012), “Men, women and worthiness”, CD, Sounds True
Brene Brown, (2008), “The power of vulnerability”, CD, Sounds True
Brene Brown’s website is: www.brenebrown.com
Brene Brown TED talks: Vulnerability & Listening to Shame